
Cremation in
no way prevents family and friends
from participating in the traditions, ceremonies, or
rituals of a funeral service.
Families select cremation
for many reasons.
Simplicity, environmental concerns, and flexibility
in
ceremony planning add to its increasing selection.
Some choose cremation for economic reasons.
Our company has generations of experience
in cremation services. We built Pittsburgh’s
first crematory in 1921. Still in operation today,
it is the second oldest continuously operating crematory
in the United States. This on-site crematory insures
that your loved one never leaves our care. The crematory
is operated by only licensed funeral directors.
The Funeral Service and Cremation
As with the option of burial, cremation
can occur after a traditional funeral celebrating the
life of the deceased where the casket is present at
one's place of worship or a funeral chapel.
Often times the
only difference between a funeral celebration followed by a burial and one followed by cremation, is that the body is taken to the crematory after the services instead of the cemetery.
The Memorial Service and Cremation
The memorial service, like a funeral,
is a service of remembrance, only without the body present.
A family may choose to have the cremation process take
place and then hold a service in a church or at the
funeral home with the cremated remains displayed in
the selected urn. The urn is usually placed on a table
perhaps accompanied by a photo of the deceased and a
vase of flowers or other floral tribute. A time of private
viewing for the immediate family is usually chosen in
this instance before the cremation process takes place.
It has been proven that taking part in the process of
arranging and attending funeral ceremonies that celebrate
the life of a loved one can greatly assist in the grief
process. Viewing and visitation of the deceased as part
of this celebration helps families by providing closure
and the opportunity to say good-bye.
Final Disposition of Cremated Remains
After the Personalized Funeral services
Listed below are some of the options
with regard to cremated remains:
It
is common to bury an urn in grave space just as
you would bury a casket. This allows families to
remain together in a burial plot. The burial site
then affords the surviving family a place for visitation
and memorialization.
- Placement of an urn may be in a mausoleum or columbarium.
- Some people prefer to keep the cremated remains
in their personal possession and will select an
urn reflective of the deceased as a permanent keepsake.
- Scattering of cremated remains may be selected.
Careful consideration of this option is recommended
since it is irreversible and there also may be legal
ramifications. Woodruff Memorial Park has a scattering
garden that takes into consideration future generations
of a family with the opportunity for memorialization
of the deceased.
Religions and Cremation
With the exception of Orthodox
Jewish, Eastern Orthodox, Islamic and a few Fundamentalist
Christian faiths, most faiths and religions allow cremation.
Cremations for Catholics
Many Catholics still believe that
the church forbids cremation. The reforms of the Second
Vatican Council touched all areas in the life of the
Church, including funeral and burial rites. "The
Church earnestly recommends that the pious custom of
burial be retained; but it does not forbid cremation,
unless this is chosen for reasons which are contrary
to Christian teaching."
The church
lists the following considerations to be kept in mind
when selecting the option of cremation:
- The selection of cremation was the specific choice
of the individual before death.
- A family who wishes to transport the cremated remains
to a distant place may request cremation.
- When cremation is chosen, the various elements
of the funeral rite should be conducted in the usual
way and, normally, with the body present.
- The ordinary practice of Christian burial includes
the Vigil Service, the celebration of the Funeral
Mass at the Church, and the Rite of Final Commendation
at the cemetery.
- Although all the elements of the Funeral Rite have
importance, priority should be given to the celebration
of the Eucharistic liturgy with the body of the deceased
present.
For more complete information
regarding Cremation and Catholics, refer to the Catholic
publication entitled, "A Vision for the Millennium."(Published
in 1999). To request a copy email us at catholiccremation@woodrufffamilyservices.net
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